If you are still reading this you probably have a pretty good idea of what I do by now… I am a kick ass Dating Coach!… But you may be wondering, “Who are you really, Mallory? And how did you get to where you are today?”
(If you aren’t wondering that, then here is an option to reach out to me now and you can skip the rest of this section.)
If you are still with me, here are some of the answers you may be looking for…
I used to build walls. Not literally, but you get the idea. These walls made it incredibly difficult to cultivate genuine connections within potential relationships and friendships. I pushed others away and thought rejection (or being alone) was the safe choice in life. But, as some of you may suspect, (as you have stumbled upon my page, so you may relate to the old me) I soon discovered that rejection is just a reality in life we all have to go through and I was the only one setting the tone for all the failed relationships I encountered. Leading me to the realization that a change needed to happen.
I began to work hard.
Over the course of the last seven years, I devoted myself to the study of love and the culture of dating, working towards the best solutions for those feeling stuck in a state of loneliness or rejection, some caused by our own doing, like myself. Like many passions others may have in life, I was still met with rejection along the way. Some of it was brutal…
I was once laid off for being “too ambitious“.
I have been told my ideas were to hard to achieve and I needed to shoot a bit lower than the stars because “that was where I could make things happen“.
These are obviously only a few of the brutal realities I encountered. Yet, the culminations of these rejections brought me to another realization.
The only person that will truly recognize your value, is you.
So, I became even more ambitious. I threw the middle finger to those that used ambition as a four letter word in relation to women and let love into my life. And so, my coaching company was founded.
After years of degrees and research (Anthropology & Matchmaker Extraordinaire) into people and why we do the things we do I have come to a conclusion. Every person has the ability to find and feel love if they are willing to do some self reflection and put in the work!
Through tough coaching and an honest approach, I have developed a process (tweaked for each individual) that has helped men and women alike get down to the nitty gritty of dating and love in their life. The process includes unique coaching sessions, in depth personal reflection, image updating, and some good ol’ fashioned tough love. If you can come in with an open mind, an open heart, and do the work, you and I will make one unstoppable team.
Mallory Love 